The American Delusion: Why Chasing the Dream Before Asking the Father Will Cost You the Assignment
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Somebody handed you a plan before you ever prayed about it.
Go get the good grades. Go get the degree. Go get the executive job title, the platform, the portfolio, the top-tier income number. But let me ask you the question nobody pulled you aside to ask when you were setting up your life: Did you check with the Father before you picked that mountain to climb?
That is the core of the American delusion, and I have spent years building my way out of it.
The American delusion isn't laziness, and it isn't even pure greed. It is something much more subtle and dangerous: ambition running ahead of obedience.
We build the career, chase the revenue targets, get the degrees, scale the platform, and then—once the entire structure is standing—we circle back to God. We ask Him to bless it, dropping a tip in the offering plate on Sunday out of what we already decided to build on our own terms. We treat the Creator of the universe like a corporate consultant we loop in after the deal is already signed, rather than the Architect we were commanded to seek first.
The Mechanical Engineering Detour
I lived this personally. When I was fourteen years old, a well-meaning adult who had spent half his life in education asked a teenager what he wanted to do with the rest of his life. I liked roller coasters. I asked who built them. "Mechanical engineers," they told me.
So that became the blueprint. I targeted the best school in North Carolina and the best one in Virginia, picking the path that took me the farthest from home. I was disciplined, focused, and all-in. But never once during that entire process did we stop and ask God if that was even the field He wanted me sowing in.
God used every bit of that detour, but the lesson was clear: high energy and world-class discipline in the wrong field is still just a distraction from your true assignment.
What Scripture Says About Unasked Plans
The Word does not stutter when it comes to self-authored blueprints:
Proverbs 16:9: "The mind of man plans his way, but the LORD directs his steps." Notice it doesn't forbid planning—it states that your plan is never the final authority. Strategy belongs in your hands, but direction belongs strictly to Him.
Matthew 6:33: "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." Order matters more than effort. It is seek first—not build first, achieve second, and dedicate third.
James 4:13–15: "Come now, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city and spend a year there and engage in business and make a profit'—yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow... Instead, you ought to say, 'If the Lord wills, we will live and also do this or that.'" This isn't a suggestion to tack on "if the Lord wills" as a polite disclaimer at the end of your five-year plan. It is a direct correction to how the plan was built in the first place.
The Real Cost: Identity and Abuse
When you build the plan first and ask God to bless it second, you aren't walking in a Father-son relationship. You are operating a vending machine. You put in the hustle, sacrifice your health, and expect blessing to pop out the bottom.
As the late Dr. Myles Munroe sharply put it: "When purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable."
Without knowing your true assignment, you will abuse your gifts, your time, your family, and your body chasing a mountain nobody assigned you to scale—all because you never stopped to discover what you were actually engineered to construct.
For the Business Builder: This is the difference between chasing an impressive revenue check to validate your pride and asking God what assets He actually wants you stewarding. Both look like hustle from the outside, but only one is obedience.
For the Ministry Leader: This is the difference between forcing a platform to grow fast and faithful stewardship of the assignment He handed you—even if it is smaller, slower, and completely out of the public eye.
Three Execution Steps for Builders
Audit Your Current Plan: Go back to the business blueprint you are executing today and ask the hard question: Did I ask Him before I built this, or am I just asking Him to validate it now?
Remove the Disclaimer Mindset: Stop treating "if the Lord wills" like fine print. Allow His voice to actually alter, interrupt, or rewrite the business model.
Prioritize Assignment Over Appearance: The next time you are tempted to chase a project because it looks impressive to your peers, stop and ask what you were assigned to build—not what looks good on paper.
I am done building first and asking second. Whatever you are constructing right now, stop and inspect the ground: Is this the field He asked you to sow in, or just the field you picked because it looked good from where you were standing?
Ask first. Build second. That is the whole shift.
